Pissy for a reason???

Ok - I am going to lay it out there. I am pissy today. I have been for over a week (most of it due to that wonderful monthly crap us woman folk have to deal with). Beside being on the rag - my husband has been a little snarky lately. Between comments about my lack of excersizing lately and some other issues - I haven't felt the love.

Here is what happened last nite:

My hubby and I were on the computer - checking out the bank account (note to self - don't be in the same room as my hubby when he is checking that account and/or paying bills - just don't). We were trying to figure out why the "balance" was so much different than the "available balance". He viewed a check that I had written for haircuts last weekend. I didn't write in the payee in because I asked at the time if they would stamp it. Well they didn't and my hubby went off! Pretty well told me "what is so hard about writing in a name - anyone could cash that if you don't" and then because of my past issues with our money - I got the "do I have to take away everything because I can't trust you?".

OMG - I was so mad - I unfortunately understand why he went off - but it doesn't mean I have to like it. So - I went to the living room and he finished what he was doing and went to bed.

It has been little things like what happened last nite that are just eating at me. And I know it is probably me just being an emotional wreck - but, well, you know that song by Garth Brooks, Somewhere Other than the Night - that explains it lately.